Aaaaarrrggghhhhh!!!

[magser]

God can someone please rescue me from this nightmare!!

I can only take so much carry on from this son of mine!!Im determined im not gonna raise a no good lazy ass who thinks he can treat teachers the way he does,but what in gods name else can i do???
He is constantly getting kicked out of class,when he is allowed to stay he refuses to work,swings on the chair,sings,makes animal noises...you name it he has done it... He always consides his job done and achieved when he is thrown out of class,its exactly what he is after,but they cant teach with him in the room so what can they do??
You name i have also done it,i have literally begged and pleaded,i have given him space,i have talked to him,i have refused to talk to him,i have shouted,i have cried...the latest was last week when i grounded him completely for two weeks with no leaving the house except to go to school and no privaledges and i actually thought this was working,but no..came home today and he was thrown out of two more classes... i have added another week onto his grounding and taken away every little thing he enjoys... he is at this moment in his room because i swear if i see him i will swing for him....and if one person,just one person tells me its all down to his condition i swear to god i will throw punches... no more excuses!!
If someone out there has a miracle cure for this i  promise to love you forever........There i feel a little better now.

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[magser.livejournal.com]

I didnt explain the whole yesterday ,i was just so frustrated... but you are very very right...Ian has in fact visited a chil psychiatrist two weeks ago with me,we had a long chat and she told me its obvious that its the school is the problem.I know this laready but it was good to hear it from someone else.
Now i have made arragements to have him moved to a new school but unfortunately they cant take him till next september as it takes quite a while to prepare yourself and get the right people needed to cater for ian.
We have explained all this to him,i have told himover and over,i know he wants to be moved but he has to hang in there for another few months,just another few months of keeping his head down and staying out of trouble and he is out of there.But its going straight over his head,he cant sem to comprehend that if this other school gets wind of his carry on they will refuse him and he is rightly fucked then....
Oh i dunno.... lol thanks so much for your input,i really appreceate it..

[cyndrarae.livejournal.com]

Oh.. okay that explains a lot. Thank you for appreciating my opinion hon, half-baked though it was :) I can only imagine what the poor kid must be going through, and then his taking it out on you and everyone else is only making it difficult for people to sympathize with him. *shakes head* But I'm sure things will work out for you soon enough, hang in there hon :) *hugs*

[magser.livejournal.com]

Thank s for taking the time to reply,you didnt have to....I know Ian is a great kid,anyone who meets him knows he is a great kid,he is funny and sweet and childlike ad always will be.But the way he behaving inschool is so totally out of character it is killing me to know they are not seeing the side of him that they should be.I have tried everything and anything from begging to fighting him and i just dont know anymore....
Thanks again,im sure it will work out..